Human Being vs. Human Doing
A Call Back to the Sacred Simplicity of Life
In our hyperconnected age, we measure worth through metrics: productivity scores, bank balances, social media followers. We've constructed a civilization that venerates doing above all else. Rise, hustle, consume, repeat. Yet we entered this world not as "human doings" but as human beings.
Somewhere in our collective sprint toward more, we lost the art of simply being.
The wisdom traditions understood this fundamental truth. Jesus invited his followers to "consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin… yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these." He saw in nature a different paradigm — one where flourishing happens without frantic striving.
The Tao Te Ching speaks of wu wei, the principle of effortless action. This isn't laziness or passivity, but rather alignment with natural rhythms. "When nothing is done, nothing is left undone" — a paradox that reveals how forcing often creates more resistance than flow.
Buddha identified the root of our suffering: endless craving. We chase external validation, accumulate possessions, climb hierarchies, always believing the next achievement will finally satisfy us. Yet this pursuit resembles a hamster wheel — constant motion without meaningful progress.
The evidence surrounds us: epidemic levels of anxiety, depression, and addiction. Environmental destruction driven by endless growth. Communities fractured by competition. People spending decades ascending ladders only to discover they've been leaning against the wrong walls.
You didn't incarnate to serve systems that see you as expendable. You weren't born to trade your finite hours for the profit margins of those who already possess more than they could use in lifetimes. You weren't designed to worship at the altar of productivity while your soul withers.
You owe nothing to these structures. Not your time. Not your energy. Not your reverence.
The things we chase dissolve at death's threshold. Titles, possessions, status — all temporary. But the quality of our presence, the depth of our connections, the beauty we create and appreciate — these echo beyond our physical existence.
So choose being. Walk among trees and feel your nervous system calm. Watch sunrises paint the sky in colors no human artist can replicate. Sit in silence and discover the spaciousness within. Speak truth from your heart. Love without keeping score. Create something that brings joy. Decline what depletes you. Embrace what nourishes your spirit.
Notice how the rest of nature lives. Animals don't hoard beyond their needs. Trees don't compete for Instagram likes. Rivers don't stress about their quarterly flow reports. Only humans, in our peculiar cleverness, have created systems that work against our own wellbeing while calling it "civilization."
The great spiritual teachers understood this. Christ retreated to quiet places for renewal. Laozi withdrew into mountains to find wisdom. Buddha discovered enlightenment not through accumulation but through release. They sought gold neither literally nor metaphorically, yet found riches beyond measure.
You are not machinery. You are not a statistic. You are not a productivity algorithm. You are not a "human doing."
You are a human being.
The invitation is simple: remember how to be — before the opportunity passes.
A very wise article calling to find balance in our insane world! Thanks for bringing wu wei here especially!
By the way- this is so much easier when you are 67!!